These are answers to the questions you asked about children from my original post :)
1. How does it feel to know that you are done having babies? Do you wish you would have more?
Well, since we wanted 4, I knew there was an end in sight (pregnancy-wise). I love my kiddos, but I did NOT love being pregnant. I had a difficult pregnancy with Emma, was on complete bedrest for the last few weeks due to pre-eclampsia. I had a miscarriage (at 9 weeks) after Emma, my next 2 pregnancies weren't too bad, pretty normal. My pregnancy with Jack was also difficult, I started having contractions pretty early (20 something weeks), had an abnormal amount of back & hip pain (we found out later because he was turned funny and putting pressure on those areas) and was absolutely miserable at the end. I knew at that point we were done having any more biological children! Jody & I are open to the possibility of more children in the future, but as long as I don't have to birth them :) I believe my body has said enough after 5 pregnancies!!! With every pregnancy I was sicker longer. I was sick with Jack until almost 18 weeks and then the sickness came back towards the end :( One thing I do miss about being pregnant is feeling the baby move and kick, I was always sad after having each baby when that feeling was gone :(
2. What made you want to have 4 children?
Jody & I talked about kiddos when we were dating, we both wanted 4. Even in high school I wanted 4 children, I don't really know why the magic number was 4, I guess we wanted an even number so everyone always had someone to play with?! We both like larger familes and I have always loved kiddos (I babysat constantly when I was younger) and I knew I wanted more than 2 :) I am the oldest of 3 and Jody has a half brother (15 years younger than him). My dad has a large family and we just love the dynamics of a big family, always something going on and you stay busy!
3. What is the most difficult thing about having 4 kids? Easiest?
The hardest thing about having 4 kiddos is probably dividing my time and spending enough quality time with each child, but I believe every Mom has this problem! The easiest thing about having 4 kiddos is there is always a "helper" around!
4. How on earth do you keep up with all the laundry? What is your system for staying on top of it?
Laundry. I very much mind doing laundry. It is one of my least favorite duties as a Mom! Each bedroom has a laundry basket, plus Jody & I have a separate one in each of our closets. On Mondays I have the girls get all the dirty laundry from all the baskets upstairs, they love to throw it down the stairs! I sort it and start. I try hard to get all the laundry done that day. Then I keep up with it throughout the week. I do not do laundry on the weekends unless I absolutely have to. Since I'm home majority of weekdays I prefer to get any and all housework done during the week and not when Jody is off work or Emma is home from school. Generally I do all the folding, separating and putting away. We are working hard to get the girls to put their laundry away by themselves, but it either ends up in the dirty clothes, in a pile on top of their dressers or shoved in a corner!